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HouseofDavid
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Close/Delete Profile

How come people don't close or delete their profile when they've found or completed a family? It would really help rather than going thru a profile that are no longer active or looking. Also, why not include success stories of finding a family or sisterwife, or sisters.

Joleneakamama
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I'm real...and I ignore private messages

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When the message makes it obvious that there was no effort made to make it personal. Example being a form letter to a single woman, when my profile states I'm married. I also ignored a message titled "Hello" that contained nothing but a single question mark. ?

I suspect the single ladies are simply bombarded with messages from polywannabees who don't know how to take no for an answer.
I used to think they should be considerate enough to say "thanks, but no thanks" but after trying to correct a member back in September....only to be insulted in the most vile and profane manner....I think thost single gals are probably wiser then I gave them credit for being, when they ignore those they are not interested in.

This suggestion assumes people have found or completed families. I've been here for years, but have never heard a success story...only failures. Lastly, this is not a dating site. It's a site for meeting others who are supportive of polygyny, and is a great place to read poly news articles.

A mind that is stretched by a new experience can never go back to its old dimensions. ~Oliver Wendell Holmes~

Pluto8
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Exactly

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What's pathetic is all the newbies coming here thinking it's a poly wife supermarket. In fact online is the least successful way to seek, and most of the "we found her" posts are from such couples, and I've only seen 2 examples of it actually happening (in 16 years!)  and lost track of them quickly, so who knows. Noble and his family are the only ongoing success here..

"Be ye faithful unto death and I will give you a crown of life"

ChrisandJamie
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We nned a like button so we don't have to write out that we agree with someone or that we like their comment.

HouseofDavid
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Agree.

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True. But there also should be a moderator to weed out fake profiles and those older than 6-12 months who haven't been active.

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noblequest
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There a mods

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But I imagine that they have rather a lot of life on their plate over and above this little site.
One takes what one can get or one goes out and creates what they desire. Personally I am glad the site is here for us even though iit is not that I would like but then again I have way way too much life and goings on upon my own plate to consider creating something that might be better for me. I suspect most are in that boat.

Morality is your agreement with yourself to abide by your own rules - RAH

ChrisandJamie
6-12 months

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My wife and I have gone more than 6 months at a time without logging on. Usually it's because of a new baby or in the last case 2 new babies. And other times we might go a month or two. I don't think we've ever taken a year off. 

However like noble I am greatful that this site is here. It's the closest thing to a social gathering place that shares our views on ploygany. I wish we could go to our local church or even a community center and find polyganists to socialize with, but that just doesn't exist here in western Washington.

Frannie
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Hi Amanda,

Welcome to the site & chat. There usually isn't anyone in the chat until around 5 or 6 pm, west coast time. PLease come in around then & hopefully someone will be there, if not stick around someone will soon. We are a friendly group & we chat about all kinds of things.

Frannie

Here to talk to friends. I am pro-poly, but am not seeking.

Joleneakamama
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I'd call it active....

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It certainly has more members, and people logging in then there used to be.

The chat room used to be busy almost every night, but I haven't really chatted in a long time....I miss chatting with the people here that I believe are real, that are also decent and friendly, but I have a real and ever present family, and investing my time in them seems a far better idea, no matter how nice it may be to have a co-wife.

Welcome to the site amandabear!

A mind that is stretched by a new experience can never go back to its old dimensions. ~Oliver Wendell Holmes~