There have been times we wish we had never got a marriage license from the state. There seems to be pros and cons on both sides of getting a state licens. However I was wondering if anyone has gone to the extreem of getting rid of their state license via devorce and still stayed married in the eyes of God? We have tossed the idea around many times but not done anything yet. If someone was to do this how would the state deal with child support if you both still live together? and share cutody. Any thoughts?