Trying again

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Coloradocowboy78
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Trying again

sheepWe are beginning to believe that we don't have a chance at the happiness that we seek. 

Also have kind of lost that energy to write much in these spots.  Been around for awhile now and have been looking for years even. So forgive me if I don't put much out there saying about who we are. No matter how much we put out saying who we are and what we are searching for it never happens.  

Maybe it's just us? Maybe people are too judgmental of what others want in a relationship?  Not trying to say anything bad about anyone..... but we have been bashed by lots of people in different groups because of what we seek. 

Would love to find an attractive country gal that wants a longterm relationship with a couple  we have kids,horses,cattle, sheep and are more homebodies and love watching movies and spending time with each other  

Good luck to all who seek this. We have been looking 20 years now  Some might not need it.  But if you are like us you definitely will need it.  Here's to hoping you all find what you seek 

If you got through all I wrote and might be interested just email us and hopefully things will work out  

 

 

Pluto8
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Happiness

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Is realizing that you already have each other and not expecting to improve upon that based on wanting more. Because in this life, at this time in history it's just not in the cards for the vast majority who desire to live it. Making oneself unhappy over pie in the sky isn't going to help

Psalm 144:1  Blessed be Yahweh my strength, which teacheth my hands to war, and my fingers to fight

Coloradocowboy78
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Happy

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We are happy. Just looking for another one to fit into our lives. 

I don't care about being complete. Because your never complete and live changes with you every day. But it's who you have with you that makes the difference. 

If you want to be alone it's your choice.  If you only want to have one partner it's your choice. If you want to have multiple partners it's your choice.   

I always say don't judge, persecute and push what you think is right and wrong on other people because you think it's not right. 

For one day you might  be judged and persecuted for what you want to do and no one will be standing up for you either. 

Trust me we have been judged and the same people that do do whatever they want and don't think there is anything wrong with it. 

So the question is who decides what is right and wrong. I believe I only need to worry about being judged when I meet my maker. Then and only then will I worry about it. 

Nothing personal against ya Pluto. Just had to say how I felt.  Ya know live and let live. Don't judge or else you'll be judged. 

I also do realize that it may never happen for us ever. But if you give up looking it most definitely will not ever happen. 

Thanks for the words Pluto hope your having a great day. 

Coloradocowboy78
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I apologize for the rant.

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I apologize for the rant. Just been looking for 20 years now. I know how it might not ever happen. Been there done that. Ha ha 

Apostle
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I would suggest trying Craigslist. Now before people scoff at that suggestion I have answered a few ads on Craigslist. I find the women on there are no more of a nut job than the women I have met on several polygamy sites. I think there are more women that are seriously seeking on Craigslist than on the polygamy sites. I have made a few friends that while not looking for polygamy are willing to be friendly.

"I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ."
Gandhi

Pluto8
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No offense taken

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We've been interested in adding a girl or two for almost 18 years. What I am saying is it's extremely unlikely either of us will be able to do so while this order remains. I've accepted this personally and it freed me from unrealistic expectations

Psalm 144:1  Blessed be Yahweh my strength, which teacheth my hands to war, and my fingers to fight