So I'm sort of new to poly but I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years. He has been married the entire time but his wife knows me only as a friend. His kid and mine are friends and play together when possible. I have babysat his kids. We are trying to open up to his wife about me as we no longer want to sneak around. We are going slow because this will effect so many lives. I have an ex husband who will be angry as he found evidence I was cheating on him with this man and I denied it. My boyfriend is not the reason for my divorce. My ex husband having no spine was the reason.
Anyway long introduction but anyone else have experience with something similar?