For example sometimes during my work, smart, pretty, and funny women approach me clearly interested in me. They'll flirt and ill flirt back.
However I always get caught up in the moment where i start getting the feeling that I should probably tell her I'm married. I'm too honest to lead a woman on then pull the rug with the polygamy topic and women too often have visible emotional responses to the topic. Scary sometimes. I can almost hear their electrical hardwirings misfiring in their brains
We have been searching for a 3rd but with little luck because my wife is shy with the topic and im tired of the aggressive responses. I've been called a pimp and a manipulator lol
Maybe it's my approach? Im sure there's many more seasoned men and maybe even some women that can give me advice.
New to all of this