Just plain ol whining......lol

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Just plain ol whining......lol

Hey guys we are a couple here, some of you know us already some of you not so much yet... But we are new. and we do not want to disrupt this forum site at all, and we have been told that there are some selective people on here and on other sites as well that just plain like to start stuff. I my self if you lash out at me, I will respond its in my nature to speak my mind (even when I am wrong..lol). I have learned over the many years being married that if you don't talk about it and work it out it will eat you up inside til you are a bitter person that snaps at everything and that's no good for anyone. We have already run into some obstacles that we didn't want to experience and it has made our search a little bit more better for it, and we will continue to have speed bumps, we know this. But we are looking for insight and guidance and we feel this site has plenty of that to offer. So if we reply to a post or a email in regards to anything, please note we are human to, we make mistakes and we can learn from them just as you should. So now that I feel that is out in the open, we will continue our venture. And we will continue to help in any way that we are capable of helping in.

Maggie04
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Hi

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When I first got here I tried to comment on a few post and posted a couple myself. I am now just sitting back and reading and learning. I stay away from the drama. Unfortunately it makes me feel like an outsider now. But I will remain teachable.

Woodenfather (not verified)
lol, good position to have.....

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I have a problem of responding on the views I see and have and in the view I have them. Its called an being honest and open. I guess I am just built that way....lol.

I dislike the drama to, but its all in the learning curve of life, you got to work through them to succeed.

But I bet you could teach me a thing or two about this topic...lol

FamilyLife
Do't feel bad, my opinions

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Do't feel bad, my opinions get me into trouble as well. It's hard to see the line between debate and drama at times. I try to stay pretty positive and upbeat, so lately I've been more inclined to just not respond than to say my view. *shrug* We each have to find the right balance I guess.

Woodenfather (not verified)
So true

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Well put my fine friend...lol

bpmcgee1228
inspiration

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And that is why you have been my inspiration Fam

FamilyLife
Thanks man! I'm pretty sure

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Thanks man!

I'm pretty sure I inspire lots of people, only problem is sometimes I inspire them to violent reaction, lol!

Pluto8
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opinions and the internut

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“When another blames you or hates you, or people voice similar criticisms, go to their souls, penetrate inside and see what sort of people they are. You will realize that there is no need to be racked with anxiety that they should hold any particular opinion about you.”

Marcus Aurelius, Meditations

Psalm 144:1  Blessed be Yahweh my strength, which teacheth my hands to war, and my fingers to fight

Joleneakamama
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That reminds me...

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Of a quote that said basically "You would worry less about what people thought of you, if you realized how little they did" Weather you take that to mean they have a small opinion of you, or only that you seldom cross their minds, the point is made either way.

Another I liked was "He who is offended, when no offense was meant, is a fool. He who is offended, when an offense WAS MEANT, is probably a fool"

You can figure it's just a misunderstanding, and keep it friendly, or you can act like they wrote something for the sole purpose if making you mad.

One more quote(before my signature) in parting. "It is better to be silent, and thought a fool, then to speak up and remove all doubt"

Jolene

There is a principle proof against all argument, a ban against all progress and which if persisted in cannot but keep the mind in everlasting ignorance, and that is contempt prior to examination.

A mind that is stretched by a new experience can never go back to its old dimensions. ~Oliver Wendell Holmes~

Woodenfather (not verified)
Both are good points,

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But i'm like a duck, flat footed and don't give a quack...lol.

I just try not to offend anyone is all, dont mind me, im jus an ol back woods country boy with a college education....lol

bpmcgee1228
me too

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Same here Maggie. Except I don't mind a little head butting, I just prefer to avoid it. I guess I'll come back and catch up now.