Okay, first to clarify. Not you're typical polygamist. I am a guy, and all the woman I have been with have agreed that any second or third ect... would be a relatoinship for all parties. Not just myself having multiple wives / girlfriends, but all being equal to each other and even sleeping together. And to prevent questions, yes all woman mentioned here are bisexual.
So I have a problem, and was hoping for some advice from someone more experienced. In the past when I was young, everything was wonderful, and worked out so well. While I never married I was in multiple relationships where myself and 2 or 3 women got along great, moved in together, shared a bed, ext. Now to to various reasons, and the need to move that didn't work out for some, this is the first time I've been in a relationship that is as serious as it is now, due to the fact that I am finally settled, and looking to make everything permanent.
Here's the problem. My first wife who've I've been with for 6 years, we've swore to always be together, and our relationship is all but perfect. She and I have been wanting to have a second wive for a long time, but as I said, just now stable enough were we feel we can really start living. Currently we are dating a third. At first this seemed great, but about 3 weeks in the third slowly started drifting to my wife, and loosing interest in me. Its been months since then, but we recently had an argument that makes me think that it will soon be over. However my wife states that she loves this woman, and cannot give her up. Almost as if she is expecting me to allow her to turn this into an open relationship where she continues to date this woman and have me break up with her, simply by making sleeping arangments to split my wifes time. I am not willing to do this, not willing to leave my wife, and my wife states she would never leave me.
I'm sure there are probably a thousand questions I'm not answered yet, but at this point I'm drained. I'll update as things progress, but could use some advice. Anyone have any idea how this could possibly play out? Or anything they'd like to say to me?