how not to approach a single woman (ever)!

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cassam84
how not to approach a single woman (ever)!

I am looking for my Prince Charming and best friend/sister wife. I am not bi, would like to have kids, am Christian and looking for a family that isn't super conservative religious wise. Please message me if you are looking for someone like me and include some info about yourself!

jasonneal
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jasonneal

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Hello i live in chicago have one wife at the moment we are a fun black couple looking for a large family

Jason neal

Jay_Hanna_U
Hi cassam84-married couple with kids seeks wives

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Hello,

My husband and I would like to know more about you. Message us if interested and let us know something about yourself. xoxo Hanna

 

 

 

With Love,

Jay & Hanna

payn144
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Hello

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Welcome to the site!

 

Major

cassam84
Hello

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Thank you

crystldelamar84
Hi husband and wife looking to expand our marriage...

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My husband will be 33 this year, I just turned 32. This is our first marriage. We both have children, but are unable to have children together. We are a Christian homeschooling family, but not super religious. This will be new for us but both of us realize that it takes a village to raise a family, and look forward to sharing our family with someone new. Maybe we can get to know each other, email and Skype...to see if we are compatible.

cassam84
Private message

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I apologize if we have mesaged privately before but if we haven't, please send me one !

TXfamily_man
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Good luck

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Good luck and many blessings on your search

May the blessings of Heaven rest upon us

cassam84
Thank You

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Much appreciated and good luck in your life as well.

Thanai
Your post

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I must tell you there is a sweetness about your beauty that I believe comes from your heart, and I wish to experience that sweetness with creating a life and family with you.

Please read my profile. If it interests you feel free to contact me.

Thanai Luv

cassam84
Thank You

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Thank you for the kind words, I will check out your profile. Good luck in your search.

Apostle
She doesn't respond

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Don't waste your time.

"I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ."
Gandhi

cassam84
Correction

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I respond to messages relavent to my ad when appropriate.

4thefam
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Right here

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Is where this conversation should have ended. Period.

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cassam84
Right here

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In all fairness, there wasn't a need for men who didn't know me to comment at all. If I could have deleted all this nonsense I would have. At this point I'm obviously arguing for the sake of argument. If I could post meme's as responses, I totally would have because this has far past into the realm of hilarity!

4thefam
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(No subject)

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cassam84
AHHHHH

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teach me wise one!

4thefam
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Only admin

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I have the text editor set to admin only for this stuff (for good reason)

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cassam84
sniff

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a girl can dream

Apostle
I am still trying to figure out

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this part of her ad. "am Christian and looking for a family that isn't super conservative religious wise"

"I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ."
Gandhi

cassam84
Clarification

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Just to make things absolutely clear, I have gotten a great deal of messages. Thank you to everyone who has written me thus far. If I have not responded to your message, I'm either not interested or haven't gotten to messaging you yet. I focus on one family at a time and see if there is potential. 

None of you people in this thread know me or anything about me so don't assume anything. DO NOT make uneducated statements about me, my faith, or my life...thats slander and you are a loser if you have nothing better to do than bash complete strangers on a polygamy forum!

*Want a single female to respond more quickly?* 

-Include a photo/s in your message or on your profile. Clearly if they include photos, the want to know what you look like.

-Let them know a little about you/spouse, your family, and what you are looking for. "Hey you seem really sweet and I'd love to talk to you some time" gives a lady zero information on your potential to be in her future!

-If you don't hear back from her, message her again....make sure you include photos and info about yourself!

Apostle
,,,,

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....

"I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ."
Gandhi

cassam84
Leave me alone

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You sent me messages stating your interest and because I didn't respond you're angry.  I'm not interested in you, and I'd like you to cease any contact with me. Leave me alone.

4thefam
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"Leave me alone"

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This is a very clear statement if ever there was one. No means no.

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cassam84
No means no

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This is where all my rapist jokes came from. Clearly this was not a leasson these people have learned.

Apostle
..

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,,

"I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ."
Gandhi

Joleneakamama
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Truth hurts??

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Since this thread has moved. I'd like to state for the record that I found cassam very willing to talk, and quite down to earth.
I guess my truth is different from yours.

Your post sounds like you take the moral high road, and you only mention your successful relationship/marriage, but I have spoken to two of your ex's and one other gal who claimed you proposed.

So did your deep spiritual connection work every time?

I know you have harassed other members in the past, and have observed that you label many women who are not interested in you as players, and otherwise undesirable.

It is not reasonable to expect the women who come here to ignore all the "bad press" you give yourself. Bashing women might have worked with a club cave man style, but bashing women with words is not likely to get you a gal.

Just sayin'

A mind that is stretched by a new experience can never go back to its old dimensions. ~Oliver Wendell Holmes~

Apostle
Jolene

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You are a gossip. You like to pass on things you have no knowledge of. You don't know me or anything about me except gossip you have heard. Also show me a thread that doesn't stray from the subject

"I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ."
Gandhi

Joleneakamama
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The difference is

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You have no first hand knowlege of her, as you youself stated she has not responded to you. What you and serena speculate about is closer to gossip and rumors.
I have seen for myself you act opposite your expressed purpose for being here, as stated in your own profile.
"Now that I've found Mimsy I'm only here for friendship and fellowship " stated in your profile, while you actively pursued other gals.

Show me a personal ad, single woman's or couple's, that the self righteous poly police don't jump on and derail. There cannot be many. If you cannot object to something truly objectionable, you pick on her for the wording of her post.

If you really dont see a difference between posts in the discussion forums, and a personal ad, explaining would be a waste of time.

But you are of course the authority on good manners. *nods*
And kind enough to warn dumb people like me about the "players" while you pursue them yourself. Mighty "kind" of you.

A mind that is stretched by a new experience can never go back to its old dimensions. ~Oliver Wendell Holmes~

Apostle
As far as I can see

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I have nothing on my profile. Like I said you know nothing about me other than gossip. Christ warned us about gossip and busy bodies. You show your true self every time you attack. Maybe others should follow your lead and share the gossip they hear about you?

"I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ."
Gandhi

Joleneakamama
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In the last eight years

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I have been a witness to your participation on this forum.

You engagement to the lady who's user name was Mimsy was public knowlege, as you and Mimsy discussed it in the chat room, and you referenced it in your profile as I quoted.

There is a difference between what is heard from others, and what is had from the horses mouth so to speak.

Having nothing on your profile now does not change the fact that you did, and that your actions were inconsistent with your public statements regarding your intent.

Now, with no profile statement made, you no longer have the responsibility of remembering who you claim to be.

I live in a small town. Gossip is something I have learned to live above, as people have certainly circulated untruth about me/us. The difference is what I have said about you is true.

A mind that is stretched by a new experience can never go back to its old dimensions. ~Oliver Wendell Holmes~

Apostle
Lets see I was off this

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Site for over 2 years. Lets look at you for a moment. You had a woman come stay with you for a6bit. She told everyone she talked to she wasn't being courted. She told everyone she didn't want to marry your husband. You got mad at everyone but her. She kept playing you but you couldn't or wouldn't see it. She finally just put the blame on her dad so you would back off. Then how about the other women that kept telling people you just wanted a babysitter and housemaid. Granted we have had women from this site come to visit but they turned out to be other than they portrayed. Mimsy lied to her dad among others. She lied about who and what she was. Her dad threatened to get my kids taken away over polygamy. She came for a visit and went home. You should let go of your hatred towards me because it will destroy you not me. I used be on a site called paltalk. Now those people knew how to gossip. Someone started a rumor that I had8 wives and a teenage mistress. My wife and I got a lot of good laughs for a few months over that.

"I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ."
Gandhi

cassam84
Trust me

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The rest of us are laughing that you've managed to find and keep 1 woman who isn't terrified by your mesogyny amogst other crimes against humanity.

Apostle
That's the slander i was talking about.

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Frannie has met my family. So has sage one of the owners of this site. Just because a man doesn't like feminism doesn't make him a misogynist. Now you are not only speaking against me but also my wife.

"I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ."
Gandhi

cassam84
Choice

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You are continuing to comment on MY thread, you can choose to stop at any time. No one is slandering you. Based on your previous statement (some you have chosen to edit for obvious reasons), it can be deduced that you are a misogynist and a bigot. No slander just fact based on your own words. Don't like someone calling you out on your crap? Don't like a woman having enough of a backbone to challenge you? Then stop messaging me!

Also, not a single person on this thread has made a feminist comment, so I'm not sure what you are talking about.  Not letting a man make false statements against a female he does not know is not being a feminist. Nor is it feminist to call out a man who is clearly misinformed about women and disabled people. 

No one has spoken about yours or anyone else's wife, only you...perhaps you should know when to fold.

Apostle
Oops

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Posted twice

"I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ."
Gandhi

cassam84
Ignorance

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You must be daft, all I've done is call you out on your BS posts on a personals ad. Your the one who decided to make false statements against a total stranger because you were upset they didn't like you. That's something a child would do, not a man.

But hey, I'm just a woman right...how could my small brain possibly comprehend your asinine comments?

cassam84
Gentleman start your engines!

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...ever wonder how the rapists who keep getting out of jail time think? Read above, for examples!

Apostle
,.,.,

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,.,.,

"I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ."
Gandhi

cassam84
Called to evidence!

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Apostle
Grow up cassam

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My 9 year old acts more mature than you. Stop seeking my attention. You keep posting to draw a response from me.

"I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ."
Gandhi

Joleneakamama
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Why did you edit your posts Apostle?

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Change your mind?

The delusion is that she seeks your attention.
You and others derailed HER personal ad post. Setting you straight does not in any way equal pursuing attention from you.

A mind that is stretched by a new experience can never go back to its old dimensions. ~Oliver Wendell Holmes~

Apostle
Arguing with someone online

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Is like the special Olympics. Even if you win you are still retarded. I got caught up in the childishness of it. I decided I wanted no part of it.

"I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ."
Gandhi

cassam84
adding insult to injury

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Not only is he a Misogynist, he is also a Bigot. Real winner here ladies!

Apostle
My wife

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Who is the most godly woman I have ever met thinks I am great. That's what matters to me. So I guess slander only applies if someone speaks against you? You show in each post how shallow your walk with God is.

"I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ."
Gandhi

cassam84
Get a clue lady

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Saying that people in the Special Olympics are retarded is the definiton of bigotry. Its not slander if its true!

cassam84
Sounds like

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Exhibit # 2...age old quote "She was asking for it"

cassam84
Women 2.0

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Defiant enough to keep things interesting, submissive enough to make it worth it! 

4thefam
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I have carpet-banned all of serena's IP address ranges

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Apostle, you're next.
Keep your opinions out of other people's posts unless it's relevant. She didn't respond to you. Drop it. Move on. Let it go. Stop pulling this crap here. The end.

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cassam84
Thank You

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Woohoo, Much appreciated!

4thefam
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cassam84

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Welcome to the site and apologies for the unruly and unbecoming behavior of a few.
Tell us about yourself. Do you like to travel? 

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