How hard is it to become a second wife.

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KaylaA25
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How hard is it to become a second wife.

I'm currently looking into Christian Polygamy, and after some research, I've decided I would rather be a second wife. The problem is I don't know any polygamists, and I don't even know where to look. Any help??

Ourlove1
Hey hunny its not at all

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Hey hunny its not at all

Pluto8
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Polygyny

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Is 100 x harder to live than monogamy. Many women come on these sites fleeing failed mono marriages, thinking poly is easier.. not so. I know nothing about you personally, just stating what I've seen, many times

If you don't stand for something you will fall for anything

HouseofDavid
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As hard or easy as you make

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As hard or easy as you make it. All relationships come with challenges, however. Its usually harder for those whom are picky or don't like to adjust.

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Pluto8
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You say picky...

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I say biblical standards. I am content in mine and am in no way complaining

If you don't stand for something you will fall for anything

Garrison
depends. . .

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"Marry in haste, repent at leisure"

It really depends on whether you want to make a good decision, a good choice you will be happy to live with for forever. 

Pluto is absolutely right about the realities of plural marriage being significantly more challenging than monogamy, and HOD is right about it being significantly within your power of adjustment/flexibility. 

Garrison

Irlooking4u
How hard is it to become a second wife.

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If you are in Utah it is quite easy to vome in contact with either a man or women that are in a ploygimast marriage. As for difficulty in living it and having been born in that relationship, it is quite easy to live. The hard part is living monogamy. However what I have observed is that ,love, patience, kindness, charity and a lack of selfishness are some of the characteristics that make living this principle a lot simpler. Also the success of the relationship largely depends on the strength of chacter and attitude of the man.

L4l

Irlooking4u
How hard is it to become a second wife.

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If you are in Utah it is quite easy to vome in contact with either a man or women that are in a ploygimast marriage. As for difficulty in living it and having been born in that relationship, it is quite easy to live. The hard part is living monogamy. However what I have observed is that ,love, patience, kindness, charity and a lack of selfishness are some of the characteristics that make living this principle a lot simpler. Also the success of the relationship largely depends on the strength of chacter and attitude of the man.

L4l

Imlooking41more
Maybe it should be hard

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Yes, I know this thread is old. 

I can't say how hard it is to become a sister-wife, but I know it is hard to find one. Identifying the scammers has been pretty easy so far, but sorting out the players from the real potential wive's is a lot harder to do. However, as I read this thread, I started to think about how much I've grown, during and because of my search. I've learned how to love my wife more, I've learned to be more grateful, and I've learned to be a little more patient. Thank God, I wasn't able to just jump into a plural marriage. 

I'm married to "Imthefirst1."

Click on my user name for more information about us.

Psalm 119:165 Great peace have they which love thy law: and nothing shall offend them.

sisterwife2016
hey

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We would love to know you.. we're Christian too and looking for sister wife.. call us at 213-222-8183... would love to know you.. we're seriously looking...

Looking for a sister wife for us.

atrueone
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I appreciate the fact of your researching

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I really appreciate the idea of someone who actually does research.  If I were you I would not jump into anything until you know that your standards and the families are the same.
 

T. D. Bennett