try a little research

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wofiira
try a little research

I agree some ads are very apealing, but how truthful is this person behind the ad when they use someone elses photo instead of their own, and uses words and descriptions of what they know most on here are looking for, "I'm humble, I will follow, patriarchy, want a guiverful, I'm submissive, faithful, the household unwaveringly follows the man". A few of you seem to just look at the photo and hear certain words in the ad without accualy doing some research, If you would do your homework you would get an idea if this person is real or not.

noblequest
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Most people do not write much

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at all on this site or any others when it comes to descriptions. Woman are generally better about putting at least a bare snippet of information but still not particularly good. I have advocated previously for writing a good deal more so as to give potential suitors some vague chance of determining whether or not this person is someone who catches your interest. If there is no real information then you really can not form much of a positive image if any image at all. In fact it was discussing this topic where I met my new wife so as you can imagine it is one near to my heart.

I have seen what you are refering to with respect to reading what one wants to hear into a profile just based on certain words. Then again I have also seen lots of simply delusion level wishful thinking as well in this area, up to and including attempting to convince woman who are in a family that they should move to a different family.

Morality is your agreement with yourself to abide by your own rules - RAH

Pluto8
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From what I've seen

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in 17 years on these sites... the VAST majority of "single females" on these sites are outright fakes or game players with virtually no actual profile at all. And why bother? Couples will respond like desperate puppy dogs to 6 year old dead posts from a non existent member. The few real profiles are from delusional females who think they will get Prince Charming (with no prenup) with a completed castle and a fairy godmother, even though they are dysfunctional jades who don't deserve any decent man

Psalm 144:1  Blessed be Yahweh my strength, which teacheth my hands to war, and my fingers to fight

Cam777
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Pluto,
 Tell it like it is!
Speak that truth my friend!

Those that have ears, let them hear your truth!
Those with eyes, let them read your truth!

People, STOP wasting time on the Net looking..
I stopped, and went out in the real world and found my Second wife.

If you want to find a women that is a "Perfect" fit for your home, for you (men) for your wife..
Get the fuck off the internet where scum is everywhere looking to catfish your ass.
(To harsh?) Sorry, I am surrounded by millionaires that don't care about feelings but reality.

Or as my boy, Ben Shaprio would say "Facts don't care about your feelings!"

For most lazy people they will resort to only the Net, to those of you who truly want to find that perfect match... Get off the PC and go FIND HER!
 

More than anything, PRAY! Give it to the LORD.
Some will say they did, some will say...$&@$*@&
 

Guess what? If it hasn't happened then maybe your not ment for it..

Just a little heads up men, this shit is nothing like you think it is.. it can be a nightmare..
Oh Lord, how many times I have been ganged up on. Lol.. You think 1 nagging wife is bad!
Add another and you will want to wash your mouth out with buckshot..

How do you find the perfect one? Well your wife and YOU need to search in person together!
Because if the prospecting lady is only good with the man but not the women your going to have a
big big big problem.. and if she is good with the women and not you.. you will feel like the third wheel in your own house..

Thats my two cents..
Shalom,

P.s.
Good to see you Pluto!
We need to meet IRL sometime!
Its been busy on my side.. really busy..

noblequest
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All true but...

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Nobody here seems to be good at putting much of a profile together as I have previously lamented.

Yeah there are tonnes of fakes on the single woman side but there are also tonnes of flakes on the families searching side and some are flat out creepers. End result is that there must be a better way of doing the search if one is in the market. Given the option I would prefer to meet people in person but we are not exactly thick on the ground and worse we have to be circumspect so putting together regional plig friendly events would be difficult as well.

Morality is your agreement with yourself to abide by your own rules - RAH

Pluto8
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Cam777

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Guess I was on a roll there

Good to hear of a real world success story. As Jethro Tull sang, "nothing is easy" but strong people can get past these difficulties. We gave up hopes of meeting the right girl online several years ago, and it was quite liberating. Would love to meet you in person and swap stories !

Psalm 144:1  Blessed be Yahweh my strength, which teacheth my hands to war, and my fingers to fight

SeekerOfTruth
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Very true.

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Very true.

It happens on a lot of others as well. Using fake photos, yet insisting if the other doesn't have a real photo in his file she won't respond.

Some single men are so desperate, by the time a profile gets approved where the woman can view other profiles, she already has over 300 messages in less than 20 minutes.

The simpler the better.