You be the judge

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Imlooking41more
You be the judge

Recently I saw "Powerinnumbers" profile and picture, and was I ever impressed! In fact, I told my wife that Powerinnumbers was better than my second wife, who presently only lives in my dreams. Anyway, Powerinnumber's picture is a little blurry, so I decided to help everyone out and look for a better picture of her. I know she's extremely beautiful, in my opinion, but if you go to Tin Eye they can show you six other sights that have a clearer picture of her . When you see her other pictures, I think you will agree, she is drop dead gorgeous! I bet the world doesn't realize just how beautiful a woman can be in a jean skirt. Believe me, Powerinnumbers is a model that can't hide her beauty with modesty. In fact, the only thing that's more perfect and beautiful than her outward beauty is her inward beauty described in her profile! Is this the perfect woman?

You be the judge.

Apostle
Hmmm

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Perhaps that picture was "borrowed" from another site? Wouldn't be the first time.

"I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ."
Gandhi

Pluto8
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If it looks too good to be true

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It likely is, my friend

Psalm 144:1  Blessed be Yahweh my strength, which teacheth my hands to war, and my fingers to fight

Flutterbug
Hi

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Although I Really Love reading How you View / Feel about this Person I truly do !
It helps other's like me to know that there are Other Men on here that Truly appreciate deeply in a Lady !
I am However Extremely Shocked that In this ONE Instance ( Without Knowing anything more then what the Original poster shared )
That I ACTUALLY Agree with Pluto8 ...
And Unfortunately ( I pray to God I am as wrong as Pluto8 Typically is )
But Most often then not IF It is To good to be true then most likely it is Just that...
I WOULD LOVE IT IF I WERE WRONG !':-) :-)
Just be VERY cautious !
I am However Extremely Interested how it works out !??
Just my 2¢
Flutterbug

Pluto8
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Experience

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Tells me that very attractive, virtuous young girls don't need to seek a mate online, they are chased mercilessly in person by suitors (and worthless horndogs looking only for one thing) In fact I've only met one such girl online and she was wild to join us, but I got real with her about the requirements and she admitted she had an incurable STD from being raped. Nice girl, sad story but a no-go. As far as my being wrong, beauty (and wisdom) are in the eye of the beholder

Psalm 144:1  Blessed be Yahweh my strength, which teacheth my hands to war, and my fingers to fight

powerinnumbers
I hate the word “judge” so if

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I hate the word “judge” so if you want to ‘be the judge’ and treat women like for sale cattle than shame on all you. I can assure you that beauty is something I surely have been blessed with though, just as always....and like this darn message stream and add, proves beauty a curse a lonely kind of life is lead by women who has devine beauty for they are ‘judged’ all the days of their fruitfulness. I have apprehensions of having photos floating through the internet, My stunning face be for only my husband to lust. I will post my photo, but interest in any of you’ll is null so dont bother messaging me.  

Imlooking41more
Happily, I say, I'm sorry

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Recently, powerinnumbers sent me a message confronting me about this thread that I started, and I'm glad she did. Truthfully, what I should have done first is talk to her about it and given her a chance to explain herself. However, I did not and that is a shame on me. Please, forgive me, powerinnumbers. 

What impressed me the most and the reason I believe her explanation is because she didn't write me and rip me apart. She confronted me in a gracious and respectful manner and truthfully, how many times do you experience that in today's society? Powerinnumbers, I did judge you and in reality I accused you of being a fraud, please forgive me. Powerinnumbers also has a little fire in her that is attractive. Finding a woman who is respectful despite being attacked and upset is a rare quality indeed, she proved to be a gem. 

Powerinnumbers, explained to me that she felt the young lady in the picture resembled her and dressed modestly like she does, and because she didn't want her picture on this website, she chose the picture she did for the previously mentioned reasons. I can appreciate her reason, after all I don't have my picture on this website either. She wants to reserve herself for her future husband and I admire her standards.

Powerinnumbers if you want me to remove my original thread, I will. However, I liked having the privilege of defending you, and being able to vindicate you.

May God bless you!

I believe you are a beautiful lady with rare and valuable qualities.

I'm married to "Imthefirst1."

Click on my user name for more information about us.

Psalm 119:165 Great peace have they which love thy law: and nothing shall offend them.

Pluto8
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So

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It isn't her picture, meaning she put a fake picture up. I don't blame anyone for not wanting to put a picture up on a site like this, but unless you meet her in person, or at least chat on a web cam, at this point there is no proof of who it is. I have run into LOTS of fakes, including one that put up a very attractive picture of a 19 year old blonde, and when I called "it" on the phone I quickly decided I was either talking to a 50 year old woman with a manly voice, or some tranny, etc

Psalm 144:1  Blessed be Yahweh my strength, which teacheth my hands to war, and my fingers to fight

Imlooking41more
Who knows

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She ghosted me after a few conversations. 

I'm married to "Imthefirst1."

Click on my user name for more information about us.

Psalm 119:165 Great peace have they which love thy law: and nothing shall offend them.

noblequest
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Slightly different take

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I am just seeing this thread for the first time after it has had some time to be hashed out. What occurs to me is that there is a tad too much emphasis on a woman’s first blush appearance. At least for my own taste.

Don’t make the mistake of thinking that I am saying that I am any different than any other man in how I am wired. We are visual creatures and we all really like when a girl is pretty and shows all of the signs of health, vitality and fertility. No news here…that is in large part what attracts men and that will not be changing soon.

I think that as this site, no matter the stated goals of the owner, does tend to have rather a lot of people coming here in hopes of finding their match so we (the men) should be thinking in terms of marriage rather than our…well our more base and feral desires.

I know that every man on here is coming to the equation from a different point of view when it comes to the criteria they might like to find in a new wife be she second or otherwise.  I thought that I might share a few of my own.

  • I would like someone who could become my best friend just like my current wives are my best friends and to become best friends with my wives as they are already with each other
  • I would like someone who would dedicate herself to being a good mother to my children whether they are ones that she bore personally or ones born by my other wives
  • I would like someone who could love me as a man even with all of my numerous faults just like I would wish to love them regardless of their own
  • I would like someone of a kinder and more generous nature than myself
  • I would like someone who understands that in our family they are marrying the whole family not just me and who embraces the idea of becoming a part of a greater whole (this is a more complex idea not well suited to a bullet point which I should flesh out in a separate post for clarity)
  • I would like someone who can adopt the goals and direction of my family as well as bring new elements to the equation of her own
  • I would want someone whose company I enjoy and who enjoys mine as well so that we may pass the years together pleasantly rather than just through a sense of duty or obligation
  • I would like someone who will accept my leadership, guidance and protection
  • I would like someone who enjoys laughing and playing and will not look too sternly or with contempt on my ever-present nonsense
  • I would like someone who I find attractive in a very general sense that while yes I would enjoy it if she were pretty as it were, there is far far more to how I define attractive
  • Last I would like someone just crazy enough to find me attractive as well

 

I have been very lucky so far in my life that while overtly pretty girls were not really my goal, I have been blessed with beauties. That being said though, I think that a lot of us tend to learn new definitions of beauty once we have fallen for a woman that did not conform to the preexisting image that we had in our minds eye.

 

Morality is your agreement with yourself to abide by your own rules - RAH

Pluto8
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Basic male biology

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Men are visually oriented.. and for good reasons. If I don't find a girll to be attractive, the rest does not matter.. and there is quite a bit to "the rest"... so, what you find to be a suitable mate might not be one for me

Psalm 144:1  Blessed be Yahweh my strength, which teacheth my hands to war, and my fingers to fight

noblequest
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I said all of that

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as in all of that.

 

Morality is your agreement with yourself to abide by your own rules - RAH

Pluto8
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Some enjoy

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A condensed version 
 

Psalm 144:1  Blessed be Yahweh my strength, which teacheth my hands to war, and my fingers to fight

Imlooking41more
Both of you

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Both of you have some good points! Thanks for your input.

I'm married to "Imthefirst1."

Click on my user name for more information about us.

Psalm 119:165 Great peace have they which love thy law: and nothing shall offend them.