My boyfriend has been trying to bring up poly and his desires to his wife. His wife objects to polygamy because of their church. Both my boyfriend and his wife go to church, I'm not sure which specific type, but they follow the rules of the church. Women wear long skirts and such. I am not religious but that isn't the issue.
My boyfriend is trying to find ways to talk with his wife about polygamy and show her it is not against God. He has used scriptures and other writings so show her. Can anyone provide additional advice on showing her that God will not condemn her for polygamy?
She isn't against her husband being with other women. She told him he could have a weekend with no questions asked, but that is not what him or I want. We want to be able to have a whole family. We both have kids and our kids know each other. His wife knows me, she just doesn't know how long we have been dating.
So any additional advice on how she can see it in God's words would be helpful. Please do not condemn me for seeing him in secret or for him cheating. We know what we did, we accepted it and we want to make things right now.